Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Holiday entertaining

Today I am linking up with so many gorgeous blogerellas to share holiday entertaining ideas! (Link up with accordingtonina.com ).

Christmas in Australia is usually hot hot hot! No roast turkey, baked pie or hot chocolate by the fire! Christmas in my family was always cold ham, seafood, pavlova, backyard cricket and in the lucky years... a holiday at the beach!











This year we are hosting a segment of my family for lunch on Christmas day. It will be a sit down lunch for five adults, so not too demanding. We have our big C family Christmas this Sunday at my uncle's house. We rotate the venue each year. C family Christmas is the entertaining extravaganza! It is lunch for 15 including adults and children. We have hosted once and it was so much fun!

This year our entertaining will be much simpler. With just five adults we can do a more elegant and sophisticated table. Our theme this year is silver and turquoise.





The most important part of holiday entertaining is knowing your audience - especially if you are hosting on Christmas day. Don't prepare a full seafood buffet if guests have allergies. Don't make a funky Asian fusion meal if guests are expecting turkey and trifle. I had an aunt who wept if there was not traditional pudding with custard!

I like to stick with traditional Christmas food. My favorite books are:









There are so many great ideas in these books! From full turkey banquets to appetizers and lots of entertaining tips. I love that the recipes are grouped into menus (although I do swap and change.) I will post this year's menu later in the week.

The other key to holiday entertaining is music. Growing up in an agnostic house I never really experienced Christmas music at home as a child. Marrying a musician (and grandson of an Anglican minister!) that all changed!

Here are our favorites:
















The perfect blend of cruisey, secular, spiritual and fun.

I can't wait to see all your entertaining tips.

Happy holidays!

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Monday, December 12, 2011

Social Media Secret Santa

This year I joined in a blog / Twitter / social media secret Santa! It was all skillfully arranged by Santa's lovely elf Chantelle Ellem (www.fatmumslim.com.au).

I enjoyed blog-stalking my recipient and finding the perfect gifts for her. She won't know who I am, but I hope she likes my gift!

I received my gift some time ago. I have been saving it until our tree was up and our halls were fully decked. I did not want to open such a gorgeous gift until the Christmas spirit was in full force!





My gift had three components. A gorgeous little card stated that the pink was for me, the orange for home and the yellow for baby! My secret Santa had definitely read my blog!





My gift was a gorgeous note book and diary.





My gift for home was a beautiful calendar and these fantastic 50s inspired shopping lists.





The first gift for our baby! This is the cutest little outfit from Nanny Pickle. Hubs and I love it!

Thank you Secret Santa, whoever you are!


xx elle


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Thursday, December 8, 2011

Worst. Haircut. Ever.

This is a cautionary tale. A morals story. A life lesson for all the newly expectant mothers out there.

I recently visited my hairdresser. Emma has been doing my hair for years. She is a perky, fun girl who remembers salient details from customers lives, which makes that salon small talk so much easier.

At the doctor's request I had waited until after the first trimester to have my hair coloured. I arrived at the salon looking like an elderly Disney witch. If I offered an apple to a pretty girl she would have fled in terror.

I explained my uncharacteristic failure to smite the grey-growth to Emma.  All the other stylists buzzed around, asking about dates and names and all the usual post baby-announcement things.

Emma was more quiet and reserved. As the other stylists went back to their actual customers, Emma leaned down and whispered to me, "Were you trying for long? We have been trying for six months and it is so hard." Her voice cracked and my heart broke.

I offered a sanitized and edited version (why was I more reluctant to tell the truth to my long time hair stylist than I am to strangers on the interwebbs??). I simply told her we were trying for a year, which felt like an eternity. I made all the infuriating comments that had so annoyed me: "it will happen when the time is right", "you have to relax", "you have to look after yourself."

As I heard these inane words escaping my lips I cringed internally. I had become one of those smug breeders who could offer useless platitudes to the non-breeders.

I take my glasses of at the salon and am thus thrust into a world reminiscent of opening your eyes under water in the pool. I could not see what Emma was doing.

I heard the snip, snip. I felt the comb whisping through my freshly coloured hair. Emma and I continued to chat about things non-baby related.

Emma blow dried my hair as usual and then went to get the big mirror to hold up to the back. It was only when I put my glasses back on that I saw my hair. Or, more aptly, what was left of it. Most of the hair I formerly possessed was all over the floor. Big chunks of it.

My hair was short. Just touching my shoulder short. My hair was layered. All flippy and short at the back. Almost...... dare I say it? Mulletesque. 


It was then that I  noticed that Emma had clearly been crying.

I raced home to assess the damage. Sure enough, it is the worst haircut ever. It does not all tie back into a pony tail without weird pieces springing up all over. I cannot straighten it. The top layers at the back make me look all Billy Ray Cyrus (circa 1988).

It is not an exaggeration to say this - no two pieces of hair on my head are the same length.

I am also honest enough to say - it is my fault.

I should have  remembered that heart piercing, gut wrenching feeling when someone announces they are pregnant. How can three short months have erased that hopeless, helpless desperation from my psyche?

I am quite sure I will not forget again.

Monday, November 21, 2011

THE news

I could not be happier or more excited to share this news with you. THE news. The BIG news.

Glenn and I will welcome our first baby into the world in early June. Hooray!

I am 12 weeks pregnant and about as thrilled as any pregnant woman has been since time began.

After 12 months TTC, one laproscopy, two cycles of Clomid and a some horrific herbal tonic (that has scarred me forever) my time finally came.

Please forgive the radio silence over the last few months. We only told our families last week! Keeping this secret for three months has been hard!

Here I am the day we took the test. I wanted this "before" shot so I can compare once I start showing.




I took the test at home first thing one morning. I had already noticed my sense of smell had changed (weird) and my already curvaceous hour glass figure was blossoming (up top only and NOT APPRECIATED). However we had been disappointed before and I refused to get my hopes up.

The test changed from one line to two before I left the bathroom! I met Hubs in the hall and promptly started crying!

Our family doctor was away so I did not take the blood test for about five days. LONGEST FIVE DAYS EVER. I still refused to hope and swayed between giddy joy and gripping terror, until the nurse called with the result.

I have so many stories and posts of things that have happened over the last three months. It was difficult to talk about the holiday, the wedding, the family events and everyday things without saying "I am having a baby!"

Hopefully I can catch up now and document some wonderful memories as well as my first pregnancy.

Thank you to all my blog friends who have prayed and hoped for me. Your emails and tweets are appreciated.

xx elle


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Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Family curse

My family is cursed. At least that is what my parents think. They laugh and joke about the family curse all the time. Anytime my parents spend more than $100 dollars on something it is bound to go wrong.

I cannot count the number of times they have had the wrong furniture delivered, or parts missing, or delivered faulty.

The best story is the BBQ. It must be twenty years ago, but is still spoken of in reverent tones in my parents' house. (Of course in Australia we say BBQ when Americans would say grill).

We were having a big party. Dad was going to cook all the meat on the BBQ/Grill outside. Mum and dad decided to get a nice big new BBQ for the occasion. We don't live in a big down, and headed to the only real place to go - BBQs Galore.

Sadly, there were not BBQs galore. They only had one of the big multiple burners that dad wanted, and it was the display model. Dad snapped it up for a tidy discount.

As the BBQ was already assembled, we could not fit it in our car. The shop agreed to deliver it for free. Our BBQ was the following day we were in a rush and were glad not to have to assemble it.

We waited at home for the delivery. We waited....and waited.

Hours later we received a call from the shop. The delivery truck had been in an accident and the BBQ was destroyed.

The store owner was apologetic and agreed to have one sent over from another town, the next morning. This would cut it very fine.

Of course when the replacement BBQ was delivered the following day, it was not assembled. Dad and my uncle spent the morning reading the indecipherable instructions and assembling the 4700 parts.

As the guests started to arrive the weather turned and a massive summer storm blew in. The party was hastily moved indoors, while mum and our neighbour hustled the meat into their kitchens to cook on the stove.

As we were moving everything indoors a massive lightening bolt struck a nearby power line and the power went out. We had masses of raw meat, no electricity, dozens of guests and the prospect of a salad bar party!

As a very last resort dad dragged the BBQ (which held together despite the 17 screws they left out) into the garage and proceeded to cook the food.

The BBQ triumphed in the end! They were some hard earned steaks, let me tell you!

I often wonder about the family curse. I changed my name when I got married, a decision not entirely unrelated to an attempted curse dodging.

So far, so good!



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Friday, September 23, 2011

50s Fair Fun

Hubs and I have had a few really exciting date days recently! I contemplated calling it Date Night, AM edition. Date Days are excellent because I get to spend time with my long lost husband in the daylight hours and still get to be tucked in bed early like the nanna that I am!

We recently attended the 50's Fair at Rose Seidler House (location of our notorious attempted partner swapping last Christmas).

We love everything 1950s. The music, the dresses, the retro home wares (notsomuch the gender and racial politics but we ignore them on Fair day!).

How gorgeous do these ladies look? So many people at the Fair dress up in authentic or replica clothes. There are booths set up doing hair and make-up. I would love-adore-cherish-swoon for one of those beautiful dresses. I love that 1950s dresses are designed for curvaceous hour glass women like myself.




The other fun thing about the 50s Fair (like any fair) is the food! We had popcorn, lemonade and the most glorious hotdogs (mine is felafel). There is something so gratifying about munching down on fair food, or carnival cuisine, while strolling through the open air listening to music and looking at attractions!





The funniest thing happened as we were walking to the car. A group of children had set up a homemade lemonade stand on the corner near their house, to take advantage of all the foot traffic heading out of the Fair.

The most gutsy young boy was spruiking like a New York street vendor! He bailed us up and we happily parted ways with the 50 cents it cost for a small cup (a large cup was a dollar).

I am so glad we got the small cup! It tasted like pure lemon juice (and some zest) had been stirred into warm tap water. It was so strong and lemony I almost choked when I took the first sip. I had to smile and pretend it was delicious as the children were watching.

Maybe next year I will go all out and dress up. Do you think Betty Draper or Joan Holloway?

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Hostage Drama - my account

There are few times in the life of an ordinary person that they are witness to events of national significance. Yesterday was one of those days in my life.

At around 9am a frantic man entered a law office in the Parramatta Justice Precinct (an area that houses the Local Court, Family Court,Children's Court, the Trial Courts and dozens of law offices). He was asking after a certain lawyer, who did not work in that office. He had his 11 year old daughter with him.

When the office clerk advised the man that the lawyer he sought did not work there, the man lashed out. He threw books across the room and then shouted at the clerk to call the Attorney General as he had a bomb. He took his daughter and locked himself in an office. The police were called. We knew none of this until much later.

I was stopped at the traffic lights at the corner when three police cars screamed past. I parked my car and walked back to the Justice Precinct area to go to Court.

I saw a number of police on the footpath out the front of a building. Two of my close friends have offices in that building and I was a little nervous. I called their mobile phones and neither answered.

I entered the Courthouse and began my day. A colleague arrived and told me the road had been closed off. A quick glance out the window revealed blue and white police tape across the street and a stream of people being evacuated from a nearby building.

We kept about our business. I was in and out of Court with several minor matters. The next time I glanced out the window I saw a completely different picture.

Fire trucks, the SWAT team and several ambulances lined the street. Word had filtered up from the street that a man had a child as a hostage across the street. He also had a bomb.

We expected to be evacuated at every moment. News vans and helicopters arrived. The TV in the Court foyer had rolling news coverage of the siege. In a bizarre parallel we watched the events unfold in real time out the window with the news commentary playing on the TV.

As the TV coverage became increasingly alarming, several of us decided to call our family to confirm we were safe. I called Glenn and my parents, neither of who had seen the news. They immediately panicked!

As the day wore on we all anxiously anticipated being evacuated. Sheriffs advised us we were safer in the Courthouse as the (very modern and post 9/11) building was reinforced against truck bombs.

We stayed in the Courthouse and watched events through the window. I received calls from family and friends worried I was involved in the siege.

I continued to worry about my two friends. At about 12pm one missing friend entered the court foyer where we were congregating. She had been in a different court room and had no idea her office was the centre of a hostage drama. The physical reaction of relief I felt when I saw her confirmed how anxious and panicked I had been. Her colleague was safe and working from home.

I was so relieved my friends were safe, but was still acutely aware that there was a man with a bomb and a child hostage only metres away.

I was fixed to the window, watching the emergency service workers moving about. I was mesmerized, transfixed. Every muscle in my body was tight, waiting for an explosion.

At lunch we went out into the street. We were behind the cordon, but the police let us roam about. A nearby cafe had a trolley of sandwiches and a bunch of us enjoyed an al fresco lunch in the sunshine on a gorgeous Spring day.....mere metres from a hostage siege. It was surreal.

We stayed close together, a motley bunch of lawyers, friends and foes, united by a common and unseen adversary.

At 4pm the Courthouse was finally evacuated. I have no idea why they chose that time, or why they waited so long. I did not stick around to ask questions!

I fled to my car and headed for home. Later that night it was reported that the child was "rescued" shortly before the SWAT team broke the door in with chainsaws. Footage showed the young girl being dragged from the building by police, screaming out for her father.

Here are the pictures I took from the window at court.










Today we learned there was no bomb. Just a violent and disturbed man with a criminal history. He had tried to get into see the Attorney General the previous day.

My friends still cannot enter their office today. Police had used gas which needs to clear and the forensics team are still working to process all the evidence.

The proximity of the events yesterday to the anniversary of 9/11 was the unspoken companion to us all.

Our lives are forever changed by those events ten years ago.

Should I be glad that my courthouse is reinforced against truck bombs? Should that make me feel safer?

I am not sure that it does.

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